Memorial Day often comes quickly with the rip-roaring happiness of a three-day weekend. Consequently, it also passes with the faint smell of barbecue smoke. Though we as military members, have come to appreciate the day of remembrance as a day of reverence, we often find it challenging to understand how the civilian community supports us. As a family man who left his wife and children behind during the time of our nation’s conflicts, I know the struggles of those who have served. As I stuggle with the idea that I will never see some of my friends return home, I am reminded of C.C. Aurel’s quoted, “Now I have you remember you longer than I have known you.”

Memorial Day is For Those Who Served and Will Not Come Home

As we celebrate Memorial Day and honor the couragous men and women who have served our country, it’s essential to acknowledge the sacrifices they have made and the challenges they often face upon returning home; if they come home. This nation’s veterans deserve our utmost respect and support, and it’s up to us to take action and make a difference in their lives. Likewise, you too can volunteer to help veterans in your local area.

Volunteer for Those Who Volunteered for Us

One of the most meaningful ways to support veterans is by volunteering your time and resources to organizations that serve them. Whether donating to a veterans’ charity, volunteering at a VA hospital, or simply reaching out to a veteran in your community, every small gesture can make a significant impact. In addition, by actively engaging with veterans and listening to their stories, we can gain a deeper appreciation for their service and better understand the challenges they may face.

Continued Support

Another effective way to support veterans is by advocating for policies that benefit them. Advocacy includes supporting legislation that provides for their healthcare, education, and job training needs and advocating for increased funding for veterans’ programs and services. By speaking up and making our voices heard, we can help ensure our veterans receive the support they need and deserve.

Creating Space for Veterans

Finally, we must create a culture that values and respects the sacrifices made by our veterans. Respect here means acknowledging their service and sacrifice in our daily lives. Creating a culture of appreciation and support can help our veterans feel valued and respected and ensure their contributions to our country are never forgotten.

To tell a veteran with PTSD, “Thank you for your service,” does not convey the respect one has. Try instead, “Thank you for your sacrifice.” Who knows whose life you could save that day? 

Conclusion

In conclusion, as we celebrate Memorial Day and honor our veterans, let’s remember that supporting them is not just a one-day event but an ongoing commitment. By taking action and making a difference in their lives, we can help ensure that our veterans receive the support they need and deserve and that their sacrifices are never forgotten.

Jeremy R. Allen

Son. Husband. Father. Veteran. Psychotherapist. 

If you know a veteran in need, don’t hesitate to contact me to learn about additional community resources for veterans.